Tuesday, November 30, 2021

The Student Santa . . .




The students were having their briefing about how to be a good ‘Santa Claus’. The Christmas season was gearing up in the department store, and Alex was here on his first day as a ‘holiday-job Santa.’

‘Whatever you do, don’t frighten the children,’ the manager told them sternly. ‘Not even if the parents want you to!’

Armed with this advice, Alex started his first day.  The very first child that arrived, parents in tow, screamed blue murder the moment he set eyes on Alex’s fine new Santa outfit and long white beard. Nothing would pacify him. Not the parents’ admonitions to ‘be a brave little boy’, and not Alex’s own attempts to console the crying child.

Eventually, in despair, Alex hit on an idea. He began to peel off his ‘uniform’, bit by bit, starting with the white beard. The child stopped crying, and watched him, fascinated.  The red hood was removed, and a young and rather embarrassed face came to light. The glasses were removed, and two twinkling, youthful, blue eyes appeared. The red robe was discarded, and underneath it was an ordinary young man in blue jeans and sweatshirt.  The child looked on in amazement, until he was soon laughing and relaxed.

Once the relationship between them had been established, Alex started to put the ‘uniform’ back on again, and as he did so, he told the little boy a story of how, a very long time ago, God had come to live on earth with us, and so that no one would be frightened, God had come in very ordinary clothes and lived the life of a very ordinary child.  The boy listened, wide-eyed.

Soon, it was time to move on. The next ‘customer’; was waiting. The boy‘s parents moved away, rather disgruntled. ‘What a shame,’ they said. ‘It spoiled all the magic.’
‘The end of the magic, perhaps,’ mused Alex, ‘but the beginning of the wonder.’

Source Unknown

O come, O come, Emmanuel - (Piano/Cello) - The Piano Guys

Presentness . . .




By Kathy Coffey-Guenther, PhD

It seems an almost impossible juxtaposition to attempt to be more deeply present in the dark, still and quiet invitations of Advent when every moment of our cultural nuance tells us that we should be out and about. Out shopping, eating, baking, partying and doing — getting and meeting every dream and need for everyone we love. How to do it all? Or whether to do it all?

These Advent days offer us an invitation to discern just that — how to orient our time and attention this season — by inviting us to stay present and open to that which is Holy and good right in the midst of the celebrations and gatherings, even in the midst of the shopping.

This Holy Presence of Advent invites us to know that where we are is simply that, a moment of time. However, this Advent time and invitation to presence also invites us to reflect honestly upon the fact that where we are allows space to seek how to live our best selves, our most holy selves and our most loved selves. This presence helps us to listen deeply to our desires of the heart and soul that we feel today, right now. This presence allows us to discern whether our chosen life paths are bringing us closer to our God, closer to that sense of our vocational call and closer to that sense of using and living our gifts to serve the greater good.

Many times, living into this Advent quiet and stillness offers an opportunity for us to make any course corrections in our lives that we have been longing for. Advent is a waiting time, a hoping time and an expectant time. Advent offers the grace to re-remember that we are loved by a God that wants to be with us, guide us, teach us, forgive us, hold us, comfort us, and share every breath and heartbeat with us. This is the hopeful, expectant time that Advent can call within us.

Through an openness to Holy Presence, we are called to clarity to see how we make space for this God whose deepest desire is to love each of us. We are called to clarity to see if we have the courage to receive that intimate invitation to be loved so deeply and truly. We are called to clarity to see if we can respond to this love by deeply desiring to love others in return.

Holy Presence — try it!

See what it holds for you this Advent. Be delightfully surprised! See how be-ing present and paying attention to the truth of our lives this season helps clarify your seeing, feeling and priorities this Christmas. Let the shopping, baking and doing be about loving others as Christ loves us. Let this season call a sense of renewed energy and purpose in the One who infuses us with love and let the gladness of that love energize and give hope to all that we meet.

Holy Presence — welcome!

Mary Ellen Green, OP Preaches for the Second Sunday of Advent (12/05/2021)

A Blessing While in the Dark . . .

 


A Blessing for Traveling in the Dark

Jan Richardson

 

Go slow

if you can.

Slower.

More slowly still.

Friendly dark

or fearsome,

This is no place

to break your neck

by rushing,

by running,

by crashing into

what you cannot see.

 

Then again,

it is true;

different darks

have different tasks,

and if you

have arrived here unawares,

if you have come

in peril

or in pain,

this might be no place

you should dawdle.

 

I do not know

what these shadows

ask of you,

what they might hold

that means you good

or ill.

It is not for me

to reckon

whether you should linger

or you should leave

 

But this is what

I can ask for you:

That in the darkness

there be a blessing.

That in the shadows

there be a welcome.

That in the night

you be encompassed

by the Love that knows

your name.




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Tuesday, November 23, 2021

An Advent Poem . . .

 




There Was a Time

There was a time when there was no time,
When darkness reigned as king,
When a formless void was all that there was
in the nothingness of eternity,
When it was night.
But over the void and over the night Love watched.
There was a time when time began.
It began when Love spoke.

Time began for light and life, for splendor and grandeur.
Time began for seas and mountains, for flowers and birds.
Time began for the valleys to ring with the songs of life,
and for the wilderness to echo with the wailing of wind
and howling of animals.
And over the earth, Love watched.

There was a time when time began to be recorded.
A time when Love breathed and a new creature came to life.
A new creature so special that it was in the image and likeness of Love
Of Love who is God.
And so humanity was born and the dawn of a new day shone on the world.
And over humanity, Love watched.

But there came a time when the new day faded.
A time when humanity who was like God tried to be God.
A time when the creature challenged the creator.
A time when humanity preferred death to life and darkness to light.
And so the new day settled into twilight.
And over the darkness, Love watched.

There was a time of waiting in the darkness.
A time when humanity waited in the shadows,
And all creation groaned in sadness.
There was waiting for Love to speak again--for Love to breathe again.
And kings and nations and empires rose and faded in the shadows.
And Love waited and watched.

Finally, there came a time when Love spoke again.
A Word from eternity--a Word
Spoken to a girl who belonged to a people not known by the world
Spoken to a girl who belonged to a family not known by her people
To a girl named Mary.
And all creation waited in hushed silence for the girl's answer.
And Mary spoke her yes.
And Love watched over Mary.

And so there came a time when Love breathed again
When Love breathed new life into Mary's yes.
And a new day dawned for the World
A day when light returned to darkness, when life returned to dispel death
And so a day came when Love became human --a mother bore a child.
And Love watched over Love—

And, lastly, there came a time when you and I became a part of time.
Now is the time that you and I wait.
Now we wait to celebrate what the world waited for.
And as we wait to celebrate what was at one time, we become a part of that time
A time when a new dawn and a new dream and a new creation began for humanity.
And as a part of time, Love waits and Love watches over us.

Fr. Joseph Breighner (adapted)1980

The Catholic Review, 11-28-80

Crista Carrick Mahoney Preaches for the First Sunday of Advent (11/28/2021)

Entering Advent . . .

 




A Blessing for Traveling in the Dark

Jan Richardson

 

Go slow

if you can.

Slower.

More slowly still.

Friendly dark

or fearsome,

This is no place

to break your neck

by rushing,

by running,

by crashing into

what you cannot see.

 

Then again,

it is true;

different darks

have different tasks,

and if you

have arrived here unawares,

if you have come

in peril

or in pain,

this might be no place

you should dawdle.

 

I do not know

what these shadows

ask of you,

what they might hold

that means you good

or ill.

It is not for me

to reckon

whether you should linger

or you should leave

 

But this is what

I can ask for you:

That in the darkness

there be a blessing.

That in the shadows

there be a welcome.

That in the night

you be encompassed

by the Love that knows

your name.


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Tuesday, November 16, 2021

Presentness . . .

 


The present moment, like the spotted owl or the sea turtle, has become an endangered species. Yet more and more I find that dwelling in the present moment, in the face of everything that would call us out of it, is our highest spiritual discipline. More boldly, I would say that our very presentness is our salvation; the present moment, entered into fully, is our gateway to eternal life.
— Philip Simmons in Learning to Fall

Monday, November 15, 2021

A Thanksgiving story . . .



Have you ever been robbed or cheated out of something that belongs to you?  One day a secretary in a large office building took a coffee break.  She stopped at a vending machine, selected a small bag of chocolate chip cookies, plopped them on a table and sat down to sip coffee while browsing the newspaper.  When she reached out and took a cookie from the package, to her astonishment, a man sitting across the table also reached out and took one.  She was a little upset by this, but didn't say anything.  After all, it was only one cookie. 

A few minutes later she took another one.  Again, her table companion did the same.  Now she was getting bent out of shape. Soon there was only one cookie left.  He broke it, took half for himself and left the other half for her.  Then he smiled, rose from the table and walked away. 

Now she was really mad!  How could he dare help himself to her cookies?  She had no problem sharing, but he wasn't polite enough to ask and he didn't even say, "Thank you."  His nerve and disrespect were insulting.  That's what really hurt.  She stood up, grabbed the newspaper and then saw her bag of cookies.  It had been hidden out of sight by the newspaper.  All this time, she had been helping herself to his small bag of cookies.  She had robbed, cheated and disrespected him!  

Source/author unknown  

Sunday, November 14, 2021

Holy Waiting, Sacred Stilling . . .

 



“We need patience with each other; with the old, the young, the sick, the slow, and with God! Psalm 36 speaks of this last need, the need to wait on God: 'Be still before the Lord and wait in patience.' We must learn how to sit still, to stop being in a hurry, and wait for God to move within our lives. We still ourselves in prayer, aware that the graces we need, the special gifts we desire, will come to us when we are ready. Whatever is necessary for our spiritual journeys will come when the time is ready. Until that time we simply sit in stillness, waiting, and even seeing pleasure, finding fun, in waiting!”

Edward Hays~

Pray All Ways

 

Look to this day . . .



for it is life

the very life of life.

In its brief course lie all

the realities and truths

of existence

the joy of growth

the splendor of action

the glory of power.

 

For yesterday is but a memory

and tomorrow is only a vision.

But today well lived

makes every yesterday

a memory of happiness

and every tomorrow

a vision of hope.

Look well, therefore, to this day . . .

 



~ an ancient Sanskrit 

Thursday, November 11, 2021

Blessing for Waiting . . .

 



Who wait for the night to end.

bless them.

Who wait for the night to begin

bless them.

 

Who wait in the hospital room

who wait in the cell

who wait in prayer

bless them.

 

Who wait for news

who wait for the phone call

who wait for a word

who wait for a job - a house - a child

bless them.

 

Who wait for one who will come home..

who wait for one who

will not come home

bless them.

 

Who wait with fear

who wait with joy

who wait with peace

who wait with rage

who wait for the end

who wait for the beginning

who wait alone

who wait together

bless them.

 

Who wait without knowing

what they wait for or why

bless them.

 

Who wait when they

should not wait

who wait when they should

be in motion

who wait when they need to rise

who wait when they need to set out

bless them.

 

Who wait for the end of waiting

who wait for the fullness of time

who wait emptied and

open and ready

who wait for you,

O bless.

 Jan Richardson

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Tuesday, November 9, 2021

Gentling God . . .



An Unclenched Moment . . .

Gentle me, Holy One,
Into an unclenched moment,
a deep breath, a letting go
of heavy experiences, of shriveling anxieties,
of dead certainties,
that, softened by the silence, surrounded by the light,
and open to the mystery,
I may be found by wholeness,
upheld by the unfathomable,
entranced by the simple,
and filled with the joy
That is You .

~Ted Loder, Guerrillas of Grace

Calming, stilling, quieting . . .

 

A Quieting Prayer . . .

I weave a silence on my lips,
I weave a silence into my mind,
I weave a silence within my heart.

I close my ears to distractions,
I close my eyes to attentions,
I close my heart to temptations.

Calm me, O God, as you stilled the storm,
Still me, O God, keep me from harm.
Let all the tumult within me cease,
Enfold me, God, in your peace.
(Author Unknown ~ Celtic Tradition)