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September 20, 2026
Twenty-fifth Sunday in Ordinary Time
Nóirin
Lynch
Anthony De Mello tells a story about a
small farmer who realized he had a field that he wasn’t using or minding well.
So, after some thought, he put up a sign in the field that read ‘this
field will be given to the one who is completely satisfied’. People stopped as
they passed, excited about the opportunity. Then they would shake their heads
and realize they weren’t satisfied and so couldn’t have it.
Eventually the richest person in the
area drove up to the door of the small farmer, in a car worth more than the
annual income of most. Stepping out he declared, I am the richest man in this
area. I own everything with no debt and have a house paid for, for every child
of mine. I am retired and enjoying the spoils of my hard work with family. On
reflection is it clear to me that I am completely satisfied, and so I have come
to claim this field which I can and will use well’.
The small farmer looked at him with
soft eyes and said, ‘Ah, my friend, you have done very well, better than most
of us. Permit me to ask though: if you are completely satisfied – why do you
want the field?’
You and I are good people who trust in
God for the most part. We trust in God for daily life, for our pension and
retirement and for whatever comes after that – don’t we? We trust in God to
treat us justly and to mind us well so that we can rest in the Lord’s love –
don’t we?
So why is it that when we see others
do well, some little niggle moves through some of us and we find ourselves
wondering why ‘they’ are doing well, compared to us (who perhaps we thought
might do better). Oh, we berate ourselves for even thinking it, but it arises.
We see it in family – I don’t want to
be jealous of how well my siblings or cousins are doing, but it niggles.
We see it in communities – I want
others to be treated well, but I deserve those tax breaks first, just as a
matter of fairness and then I will volunteer/donate.
We see it in borders – I love
everyone, once they’re legal cause I did it right, so why shouldn’t they? (did
you, did you really? lol)
We see it internationally – you can’t
expect us to prop up other countries, in health care, disease control, climate
emergencies - even when it’s clear all we have here is based on how we
plundered (still plunder?) other countries. But that wasn’t us personally, so
we shouldn’t suffer for that?!?
We are nice people, we deserve nice
things. We donate, we tithe, we are kind. We are satisfied with our lot. Until
we see what others have, perhaps? We trust God and we really want to be
satisfied that God will bless us always.
So why the niggle? Why the need to
keep an eye on what the neighbor is getting?
Now before we beat ourselves up, let’s
be prayerful and kind about this. This is a wound in us. It’s not just plain
greed, it’s often really fear, isn’t it.
For most of us, we began life utterly
confident of love. Somehow, somewhere, we got hurt. Wounded. And now we believe
– somewhere deep inside - that if we share, we will get hurt again. So, we keep
an eye on what the neighbor/sibling/country is getting and we wonder what that
says about our value, our worth, about whether we are really loved and loveable
or not.
We are not completely satisfied, and
that’s the way many of us enter into the second or final part of life. The part
that’s all about letting go and surrendering into the love of God who will mind
you.
So, today's gospel is written
specifically about many of us and for many of us. The ones who are doing ok but
are nervous of others doing well.
The nice thing is that Jesus recognized
this quality in many, so we’re not uniquely sinful. We’re human!!
This week’s readings call us to three
things
- To seek out God
honestly, bringing ourselves just as we are, to be loved
- To trust that
God is not a relationship to be earned, but that God is already near to all who
seek God – so God is with you, and not some future earning or not dependent on
how much love God has left over after loving everyone equally!
- To let go of
the comparison and the fear of being underpaid in comparison to others. The
fear of being under loved, under appreciated
Mary Oliver wrote:
To live in this world
you must be able to do three things:
to love what is mortal;
to hold it against your bones
knowing your own life depends on it;
and, when the time comes to let it go, to let it go
The first letting go for us this week
might be noticing and letting go of the fear that others are doing better than
us. It really doesn’t matter; it’s just comparisons in a consumer/capitalist
world. Let it go. Trust in God’s love. Bring the struggle with that to God in
prayer.
The bigger letting go might be over
the years ahead – noticing and letting go of the fear that God couldn’t
possibly really love us totally, not if God knew us. Catching the places where
we insist God must be mad at us, healing the fears of being unworthy. Until we
reach a moment, a nirvana, where we accept that we are truly beloved, and can
rest completely satisfied into the arms of God.
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