"So in our culture, waiting sometimes bores and often irritates us, however we may find that at every stage of our lives some new forms of waiting are involved. The Scriptures teach us that if we approach waiting in the right spirit, waiting is a creative moment when we grow spiritually. When we wait, we are in touch with an essential aspect of our humanity which is that we are dependent on God and on one another. It is also an act of love since, by waiting for others; we pay them the respect of letting them be free.
Waiting is a mystery – God waits and nature waits – so that when we as individuals wait we go beyond ourselves and enter into sacred life-giving process, experiencing that we are made in the image and likeness of God. This is why Advent is a time of celebration.
Advent is the season when we remember with gratitude creative experiences of waiting in our lives or the lives of people we have known, the people who have waited for us at one time or another. We also remember the great waiting experiences in human history, in the Scriptures, and especially in the life Jesus.
Today, we have come to reflect on faithful waiting. Henry Nouwen writes that, Faithful waiting is the antidote to fear and self-doubt. It is believing God can accomplish in us something greater than our imaginings.
Waiting teaches us to live life in increments, in small pieces rather than large chunks. Waiting teaches us to measure our progress slowly. It is hard to trust in God’s time - Kyros time – God’s slow unfolding time. God’s time is different from our time - Chronos time- time of clocks and calendars. On God’s time, we are often waiting for the bigger picture but must be content with each small piece. When we are waiting, we put one foot in front of the other every morning and evening. Henri Nouwen says that sometimes we have enough light only for the next step. Faithful waiting teaches us patience."
(Adapted from Original Writings . . .)